This post is about how to fix your relationship when you think, “I can’t do anything right in my relationship,” and how to fix your relationship when you feel like the tables have turned against you. When your partner criticizes and belittles you and says that everything is wrong with your relationship, how to fix that?
This post will discuss 3 Steps of what to do when you feel like nothing works in your relationship. Step 1: Invent a system, Step 2: Communicate, Step 3: Make changes together.
After reading this post, I hope that readers will have a greater understanding of how they can work on their relationships to be successful and more enjoyable!
Why Do I Feel I Can’t Do Anything Right In My Relationship?
You don’t always do things right the first time around; no one does. No one is 100% perfect in their relationships. No one.
Your partner isn’t perfect, and neither are you. We are all messy and imperfect from time to time, no matter who we are or what relationship we’re in.
When someone suffers from low self-esteem issues, they may think that the only way to fix their relationship problems is by changing the other person’s personality or changing the relationship itself.
They might even ask for a divorce because they feel their partner can’t do anything right because he/she isn’t perfect! These people have low self-esteem and may not understand why they keep making mistakes with other people and picking partners that hurt them.
Sometimes, people with low self-esteem are not nice to their partners. They don’t mean to be mean and nasty, but they just don’t know how to handle themselves well. They may be nicer to their friends than they are to their significant other and not even realize it!
They may also find themselves messing up constantly in their relationships because they are scared that their partner will leave them.
You must apologize when your significant other is upset because you did something wrong. You didn’t mean for that to happen, but now it’s done and over with. They’re upset, and you need to fix the problem!
Everyone makes mistakes sometimes. We’re human, and because we are human, we make mistakes.
Even when you make mistakes, there is a way to fix them! You have to apologize and be honest with your significant other. If you don’t feel like you can fix the problem, you need to seek counseling for your relationship.
You might even want to go through this post and learn about the 3 steps on how to fix your relationship when you feel like nothing is working!
What To Do When You Feel Like You Can’t Do Anything Right In Your Relationship?
There are three things that may help:
#1: Invent A System For Your Home/Lives Together
This way, you guys can do things more efficiently together and make each other feel more comfortable!
Feeling like you can’t do anything right in your relationship is scary. You feel like you might fail at this relationship and that your partner will leave you for no reason. Your heart might be broken again, but hopefully, it’s not so bad this time!
When people are in relationships, they want to make each other happy and want to make their partner happy too. Sometimes, the problem is that you think differently from each other and don’t come up with a system. This puts stress on one another!
Communication is one of the most important things for a successful relationship. You have to communicate with your significant other. For example:
“Hey, can we work on our schedules? I don’t really know how it works, and I haven’t been to your place in 2 days! What time do you have off?”
Let them know what you want! Make sure that your significant other understands what you want to do as a couple. Be clear and keep it simple for them!
#3: Make Changes Together
Sometimes, things change when you’re trying to work on them. You might realize something else needs to happen in order for the relationship to be even better. After you think about things, make the changes together!
Communicating and making changes together is a must for a successful relationship. If you don’t, then the problems will escalate from there, and it won’t be good for either of you if that’s how they continue to happen.
Improve yourself in your relationship and learn to respect your partner more. Have fun in your relationship. After all, it’s something you love!
Everyone makes mistakes. Sometimes our mistakes hurt our significant other, and we feel like we can’t do anything right in our relationships. However, there are ways to fix that!
Try out the three steps I shared with you above and make satisfying progress with your relationship! It may take a while to get used to at first, but it will be worth it if you continue doing them daily! 🙂